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  1. Please pray for us. Our marriage is in much need of mending. We are on verge of divorce that neither of us want we need God’s help.

    1. oh no Brad. I am praying for you both. Are you seeking Christian counselling? I find myself talking to wives more often than not – who are the only one fighting. It is refreshing to hear from a husband who is fighting. When you both want to make it work, a councilor can work wonders. If it is just you alone, there are some amazing resources – John Townsend’s group at New Life can refer you to a Christian counselor in your area and get you started on the road to healing – if you need a starting point. https://newlife.com/

  2. We are in need of prayer. Me and my husband have been at a tug of war for almost a year now. He’s moved out and doesn’t want a divorce. I’m trying my best to do all that I can for us. I’m praying, getting advice from older wives and we’ve even started marriage counseling. He’s just been so mean with his words that it’s pushing me away. We’ve been married for almost 10 years. Please help…

    1. Hi Tekeka. I am so sorry you are in this situation. It is a hard place to be – separated. But I am praising God that reconciliation is possible. I get to mentor wives in similar situations all the time. I would advise you to hold on to God through this season! He is able to do amazing things. I will be praying for you. I have a 9 week course – for wives only – that has helped so many women to date… find hope and joy through the hard seasons of marriage. I’d love to share it with you. Shoot me an email when you see this (TiffanyMontgomery@hopejoyinchrist.com)

  3. Differences in methods really takes denying self. It’s not easy. I guess that’s why Jesus said to take up our cross daily. My flesh (and not to say humanness because that makes me want to use it as an excuse) wants to pitch a fit daily. I need Jesus more and more every day. So wonderful to read how God worked in your marriage. Thanks for sharing!

  4. Tiffany, you’d be surprised how many humans do the same thing. We’re all selfish about our preferences with husbands, children, and others.
    Challenge Accepted – glad to have found you (your blog) through this series.
    The thing about marriage is once the hormones of first love or in love stop, you have to face the person (not the one who courted you) you married without rose-colored glasses. This means someone who doesn’t do things the “right way”. LOL
    BUT the blessing comes in working together to compromise and dance. Marriage is growth as a person and as a couple.

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